Venus Lilith aspects are the ultimate in seduction. The native may be stunningly beautiful or have great sex appeal even if they aren’t classically good-looking. Together, these two sirens bring out the best in each other. Lilith strips Venus of any excess mawkish sentimentality while Venus sprinkles charm over Lilith’s bluntness. While Venus alone can be prone to vulgar displays of bling, Venus Lilith achieves balance. The result is a tart dark cherry rather than sickly sweet currant. On the other hand, Venus the benefic will soften Lilith’s harshness. This results in a velvet-gloved punch that gets things done!
Artistically this combination is superbly creative. Magical Lilith works with elegant Venus to manifest extraordinary visual forms. Think sacred geometry. The Venus Lilith physique will often embody this stunning aesthetic. When Venus conjuncts Lilith, she will be a walking, talking work of art. Venus in soft aspect to Lilith has persuasive but watch out for sexual manipulation. There may be shameless flirting or just plain diva behaviour.
Diva Behaviour
In addition to exuding self-confidence, these subjects will possess that special star quality that demands worship. At their worst, Venus Lilith aspects think the world owes them a living. They expect everything to fall into their laps at the click of a finger. But most of the time, annoyingly, it does!
However, when things don’t go according to their dream, Venus Lilith can take things hard. The experience of being spurned by a lover is particularly crushing. So if Venus Lilith gets dumped, they may seethe and plot revenge incessantly. In the worst cases, they may fall into a deep depression and become obsessed with their lost love for years to come.
With Venus square Lilith or Venus opposite Lilith we get a dynamic edge. In addition to sexual competitiveness, a roguish charm is present. Venus’ magnetism is used as a weapon while Lilith divides and conquers. Sex addiction is another possibility. Love is the drug with Venus in hard aspect to Lilith rather like Venus Neptune or Venus Pluto aspects.
Seething Revenge
Other addictions associated with Venus Lilith could be shopping and an obsession with looking hot and sexy. Fortunately, this will also give them tremendous drive to develop their talents. To satisfy Venus Lilith’s rampant creative urges, the native will need an artistic outlet. To satisfy this craving, the native must, above all, be productive with their imagination.
There can be an obsession with making endless literal or metaphorical babies. “The Almighty tells Adam that if Lilith fails to return, 100 of her children must die each day. Apparently, Lilith is not only a child-murdering witch but also an amazingly fertile mother. In this way, she helps maintain the world’s balance between good and evil.” ~ Biblical archeology.org
The suppression of Venus Lilith’s libido can cause some very twisted behaviour. Lilith’s hurt rage is always simmering below the surface, even if it is wearing a sparkling Venusian smile. Triangular relationships are an obvious manifestation of Venus Lilith. For example, the wife is pitted against the lover, Barbie-doll looks against tattooed, blue-haired feminist, or dream girl V bad girl. Venus can be a perfectionist, but Lilith quite likes the warped and deformed. So when these two tangle, strange things can happen. Lilith functions like Venus’s bad twin, shoving the mirror up to her worst faults unforgivingly.
Cupid Stirring
Lilith is the shadow, so with the hard aspects, she will amplify all Venus’s negative traits. Venus can be shallow, vain and gossipy. Most of all, she loves adoration and being seen with the In-crowd. We are very influenced by Venus when it comes to FOMO, selfies, and ‘likes’ on social media. So Lilith Venus likes to toy with relationships, acting cupid to unlikely couples, just to see what drama ensues!
In Greek myth, the ‘Judgement Of Paris” is a good example of the energy of Venus Lilith. Think of how Venus started the Trojan war because of a silly love game. In Greek myth, Eris (The higher octave of Lilith) threw her golden apple into the wedding party of Thetis and Peleus. Eris’s apple was inscribed ‘To the fairest’. Hera, Athena and Aphrodite were rivals in the competition. Aphrodite (The Greek version of Venus) offered Helen, (the most beautiful woman in the world) to Paris as a bribe if he awarded her the golden apple. One problem, Helen was already married. So here we have another love triangle! With these aspects, the native has the opportunity to work on these character flaws.
