Mars Lilith aspects scream sex like no other. The hard aspects; Mars conjunction Lilith, Mars square Lilith and Mars opposition Lilith will cause more controversy. While the soft aspects Mars sextile Lilith and Mars trine Lilith are still brazen but with more charm, like a rough diamond. So put red hot, sexy Mars with Lilith the sacred prostitute and what do we get? Not quite a list of pornstars, but sex will be an issue with these people. Whether it’s the politics of sex, high sexual magic or just plain sexual magnetism. It is hard for the native to avoid dealing with the issues of sexual power.
Mars conjunction Lilith sexuality could be taboo in a way that exiles them from their family, job or social sphere. Something about them stands out for good or ill. Sex is also something that they can make money out of in whatever way, shape or form. You would expect Mars conjunction Lilith to be very liberal-minded and open about sexual relations but this is not always the case. Mars Lilith aspects are perceived as promiscuous because they are supposed to be obsessed with sex. However, sex is so sacred to them or becomes such a hot potato that the natives can be surprisingly celibate.
Taboo Sexuality
Mars Lilith natives can find their flaming passions too hard to handle once unleashed. The suppression of this fierce libido can cause a lot of rage and the subject’s health can suffer if they don’t find some way of purging it. If this steamy energy does not satiate itself, it can result in abuse and violence directed against loved ones or themselves. It would be beneficial for Mars Lilith to channel its built-up rage through sports or competitions.
Mars aggravates the tendency to triangular relationships with Lilith, so there might be a pathological need to destroy any love rivals. Jealousy can be a big problem here, which is another reason why Mars/Lilith may try to suppress their sexuality. This aspect functions like a volcano, its brooding, smouldering aura makes it attractive but can turn ugly when the repressed angst finally erupts.
The fallen Woman
Lilith in her priestess mode can transmute this powerful sexual force. With women after menopause, they could find that their crone/witch powers become far more intense. Instead of the self-sabotage that comes with inexperienced hands, the Mars Lilith aspect becomes powerful magic. The wiser older native owns the Plutonic energy, so Lilith becomes Queen of the underworld rather than Pluto’s sex slave! The Mary Magdalene archetype fits well here where the fallen woman redeems herself. This applies to all the aspects, soft, hard or the conjunction.
The sexual drive of the Lilith sextile Mars or Lilith trine Mars can be incredibly creative or surprisingly bring out the very worst of the baby-killing aspect of Lilith. Nine times out of ten the soft aspects bring great gifts as you can see from the myriad of talented celebrities in the sextile and trine sections. However, occasionally, the soft aspects bring out the worst in malefic Mars spurs Lilith’s hurt rage to commit the worst ‘Evil’ imaginable.
Mars Lilith in soft aspect will be obsessive-compulsive, which drives the very charismatic subject to excellence in their chosen field. In the wrong hands, however, this energy can equally be psychotic. Sexually scintillating and magical, the soft aspects can soothe Mars’s tendency to vulgarity and brashness. The trine, in particular, gives any ‘slut’ tendencies from Mars/Lilith some class and finesse! However, the trine may equally make it hard for these subjects to break away from addictive behaviour with their chosen forbidden fruit. It is easy to get stuck in a cosy pattern of repeated self-harm. Lilith/Mars’s drug may be their partner who keeps them locked in co-dependent addictive behaviour.
Sex Addiction
Lilith square Mars or Lilith opposite Mars can tend toward sex addiction in a big way. It is all about seducing and winning a lover over someone else and enjoying the adrenaline rush of victory. Unlike the addiction to the euphoric, in-love feeling which is more Lilith/Venus. Instead, Mars/Lilith enjoys the thrill of the chase, fast and furious lovemaking followed by the volcanic release of suppressed tension at orgasm. Fighting with one’s lover will be a huge turn-on, the main themes being who can dominate whom and who goes “on top”.
These natives are fighters, incredibly cheeky, and sexually precocious having no shame whatsoever. This brazen attitude gets them far in life! In hard aspect, Mars/Lilith is a triple dynamo and physically tough. They may put themselves through the extremes of emotions, drugs, and drama. They want to taste it all and are insatiable. Mars/Lilith sees that they can rise like the phoenix from the flames again and again. Therefore they tend to push their luck, however, more often than not, they make it through.
