Transiting Pluto opposite Sun is likely to dramatically increase your need to take control over your life and also of the lives of people around you. Pluto here acts to intensify your will power and ego to the extent that you find yourself acting out of character, becoming almost ruthless in trying to achieve your personal goals. You may be motivated by what you believe are good intentions, but the extreme nature of Pluto mixed with the antagonistic nature of the opposition can lead to such behavior as obsessions, compulsions, jealousy, revenge, domination, even megalomania and violence.
If you do exhibit any of those more negative manifestation of Pluto, then you will face strong opposition in personal and professional relationships, intense power struggles and conflict. There is a difficult polarity to balance out here, because there is also the possibility that if you take the meek approach you will be trampled by others on power trips, who will be trying to dominate you. Above all, Pluto is transforming your life now. It is through confrontation and power struggles that this soul evolution takes place. You are learning how to wield your own power within relationships, to find the balance between standing up for your own right while not imposing your will onto others. Finding the happy medium will involve give and take, going through periods of retreat then periods of attack. The very nature of Pluto means that you may swing from one extreme to the other in the process of finding that balance between your rights and those of other.
Pluto Opposite Sun Transit Dates
Cancer decan 1 (born June 21 to July 1) – January 2008 to November 2013.
Cancer decan 2 ( born July 2 to 12) – January 2013 to December 2018.
Cancer decan 3 (born July 13 to 22) – February 2018 to to November 2024.
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i am having a very difficult time right now My partner of 20 years says i am very unloving and nolonger wants to be with me he has gone out every weekend and through the week for over 10 years while i sat in to see to our 11 year old son .Now he wants to sell the house which is breaking my heart, i gave up on him long ago after christmas and new year sat alone with a baby plus every weekend When you are a cancerian your home is every thing, i know i have big changes coming but i cant bare to go through with it all. i know i have been a fool for many years, and not had a life but my son and home is everyhing to me and will kill me to lose the home i love so much .
Hey adele, you are no fool because you choosed for you son.
At a certain moment in life you do what you do for best at that moment, it ‘s your life path.
I had times that i thought that i would have jumped under a train. And i read books of positive thinking and listened to some good advice while thinking you are not in my shoes, i can’t stand this any longer.
And now i am feeling better, did anything special happened except misery?
I am learning so much more and it is through the hard times you learn.
I think you have to learn how to let go.
You already gave up on your husband.
Now you have to do this with your home.
Think that your home is where your heart is.
You can make a new living in another house, maybe a brand new start, maybe you won’t have all you need at the beginning, but you ware a cancerian, you manage.
I bought a house 16 years that nobody wanted. With rats in the garage, a garden i couldn’t walk through. But i said : this is it, and i cried many nights that i thought : what have i done. But i din’t gave up (probably wanting to prove myself to earn the love of my father), and now it’s a cosy house, painting yellow with many flowers.
Think about what you are going to do in your new house. Paint it in beatuiful colours, flowers.. Buy a dog, a cat
Enjoy living simple, without a man that doesn’t love you
You can make it
I am sure within 2 years you will say : i am feeling fine.
It will turn out the best for you.
Imagine daily what life you will have. It will be better.
And what is a home , a house without love, when you have to be there with a man that doesn’t respect you? Is that a home for you?
It’s a lonely prison.
Good-luck.
It will be much better, i’ve been there also
aw just read you comments and it was nice to take the time to reply. At the moment i cant bring myself to say sell but i know it will come lifes tough at the moment x thanks
Adele – Your self esteem has been completely eroded which is totally understandable when any relationship is in the process of ending as well as having your foundation being taken away from you. Never remain in any situation where you are made to feel unworthy, powerless, unlovable, or unwanted. These are all negative forces that destroy one’s soul. I have several close Cancer family members and they are all very tenacious and willful protectors of their home and family; it is your right if this is what means the most to you. When I was 30, with a newborn son, I also had to leave my home with no savings and start all over again so that my son and I would get the wonderful opportunity to grow up in a much more loving, happier, and conflict-free environment. It opened up so much happiness for me, being single and no longer having to constantly placate a partner or need their permission for anything. I shudder to think how unhappy, powerless, and beaten down I would have been today had I not had the courage to start anew. Focus on the “you will soon be happier; he was not the right person for you.” It’s happened to just about all of us. So many others have experienced much more misery, never had a home of their own to live in, had no money or no job, had no children or other close loved ones in their lives to comfort them. Cancer is a cardinal sign (strong) and they thrive when they lead with their heart and emotions. Might be something new for you so, with goal set baby-steps, you just might amaze yourself. You deserve happiness which will radiate out to your son and greatly improve his outlook and future as well. Praise yourself on your best qualities as often as you can. Giving up on your future which would affect your son’s is not an option for anyone with a loving caring heart. Best wishes on discovering the beautiful new you.
Gina thanks for taking the time to write to me, i am doing my best to stay strong,even though i know its for the best i still cry everyday and seem to be fighting it, i know one day it will all be for a reason and will get there in the end. thanks adele x
Hi,
I am going through the most frustating and bad phase of my life loosing the touch between whats going on around. I am loosing touch of what i want and where I am heading and its dreadful. My birthday is 27 dec 82 and brithtime is 21:54 pm, Please help me if you can tell me what to do since this confusion is killing me from inside. I didnt wanted to marry the guy that I did since he was emotionally blackmailing me saying he will sucide since he loves me so much but our thoughts and the way we see life doesnt match and I am highly unhappy in this marriage but scared of breaking away since i will be lonely as everyone opposes me. I am in midst of struggle between breaking free and staying in.. Please advice me if you can and I am making impulsive decisions like giving up europe and my job since i want to be away from my husband . I am scared of what I am doing . I know I might end up dying coz of so much frustation and not reaching where I want to
someone please reply .. to my query above
Dana,
Off the top of my head I would say you’re going through your first Saturn return. You can look that up and see what it means in general.
Anyone who threatens to kill himself because he “loves you so much” doesn’t really love you. That’s not love. I think you probably knew that before you married him.
There are worse things than being lonely. I think you’re finding that out right now. If people oppose your leaving this man, I’d ask why they would do that. Of course, their opposition might not have anything to do with love in any case. It could be about religious beliefs or appearances or something else altogether.
I don’t know what’s impulsive about the decisions you’ve made lately, but I don’t think wanting to get away from your husband is unhealthy, considering the situation. Your verbal gesture of despair is telling me that you feel you might die for some reason, or at some level you’re threatening to kill yourself. That gesture tells me you feel trapped and hopeless and alone.
I’m not going to tell you what to do. I think you know what you want; and I think you know what’s good for you, what feeds your soul. My guess is that when you nourish your soul, you won’t be lonely for long. But you have to decide that that’s what you want and act upon that sense of goodness.