Moon square Lilith is one of the most challenging Black Moon Lilith aspect you can have, but it is ultimately one of the most powerful. The subject will go through life facing constant intense triangular relationships that will either make or break them. They may be asked to choose between mother and spouse, child and lover or family and spiritual path. Exceptional demands may be made of them to make heartbreaking decisions, which in the end may exile them from their family. They need to learn that they can’t please everyone and to own their Lilith sovereignty. With this set up they will always end up hurting someone so they might as well pick the solution that makes their soul the happiest. They may break under the pressure of this aspect and succumb to the temptation of Lilith’s forbidden fruit in the shape of sex addiction or drugs. If they manage to come through then these subjects are a fantastic example of the Phoenix rising from the flames. The valuable life lessons they have learnt from their traumas become an inspiration to those still caught up in the darkness.
Moon Square Lilith Celebrities
Moon square Liliths are passionate and react quickly from the gut. Their sexuality is unusual and a big issue since the square is a sexy Mars aspect. Lilith squares will give them an unlikely sex appeal, despite or sometimes because of some eccentric physical feature; Short height, (Fox), big boobs (Parton) or scary looking (Lee). On the outside they may have the countenance of a naive child while on the inside lurks a demonic brat or it can be completely the other way round. They can also be externally very masculine, internally feminine regardless of their actual sex and vice versa. Whatever way it falls, moon square Lilith is often the very opposite of what it first appears.
Mean Liliths: Willem Dafoe, John “Paradise lost” Milton, Jimmy Hoffa, Spike Milligan, River Phoenix, Tina Turner, Osho, Alanis Morrisette, Sarah Aldrete, Mia Farrow, Helen Keller, Christopher Lee.
True Liliths: Olivia Newton-John, Michael J Fox, John Inman, Dolly Parton, Frank Sinatra, Maria Carey, Emperor Akihito, Noel Coward, David Essex, Giorgio Moroder (& Mean), Yoko Ono, the planet Neptune.
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I’ve been waiting for this for a while, you did a good job on this one Marina, very enlightening. As you know this is the tightest aspect in my chart at just 5 arc minutes. I don’t have big boobs but can be scary looking when you don’t touch up my profile pic. Everything you said rings true. The effects really came out strong when Pluto was square my Moon, and when Saturn was conjunct it. Both times resulted in relationship breakups, very dramatic and traumatic and involving the intake of much forbidden fruit.
Marina this is spot on. I have a very tight square between Mean Lillith at 19 Libra in the 12th and the Moon at 19 Cancer in the 9th. “Heartbreaking decisions”, “exile from the family” (albeit self-induced), “constant, intense triangular relationships”, “the Phoenix rising from the flames”. My professional name is actually Pete Phoenix.
It takes a lot to get me intrigued but you’ve done it. Thank you and well done!
Thanks for the great feedback guys! It was a hard one to do because it’s so close to me. It was simmering on my desktop for quite a while. As I said on Facebook I obviously am attracted to this aspect as so many of my heros are on this list Rufus Wainwright, Al Pacino, Osho… Rufus even did a tribute to Judy Garland, so it’s all connected in Lilith land.
Pete, I love that your professional name is Phoenix, it should prove lucky for you then.
Jamie you have True Lilith opposite Neptune and I have Lilith square Neptune, so its a good job we met after we decided to use our Neptune’s more spiritually and less forbidden fruitily
Thanks for this Marina
I have no wiggle room, I have Moon square Lilith… and more that a few other squares with my moon.
Moon 11 33′ 27″ Libra
Mean Apogee 11 33′ 44′ Capricorn
Conjunct my Mean Apogee I also have Juno, and Atlantis at 11 Capricorn, Mercury Venus and MC at 12 Capricorn all of which are square my Moon.
I can definately confirm the heartbreaking decisions. I have had to become estranged from such an abusive relative that I still need to use caution posting anything on the internet about the details. I made this decision knowing that the cause and effect would likely lead to an estrangement from that entire side of the family and that is what ocurred.
As my Moon is inconjunct Chiron (15 41′ Pisces) and Inconjunct Jupiter (16 21′ Taurus) the two are in a sextile and I wonder if I do not also have a Yod pointing back at my Moon.
With this Moon Square Lilith I have found that if I try to ignore or stifle my dark/magic/mystery side I always end up getting a cosmic ass kicking (best to embrace it). With everything square my moon, I can not avoid dealing with my emotions, the only way out is through for me.
Although a very good astrologer opined that my Grand Trine in Earth would make me lazy, I rather think that Grand Trine (Jupiter in Taurus, Uranus conj Pluto in Virgo, Venus and Mercury at 12 Capricorn) is what saved my sanity. This life for me has been one dark night of the soul after another with a few moments of rest inbetween. I keep thinking I am done and another wave comes. It is only a deep connectedness to the Earth that keeps me going during these times.
As usual this is an excellent post Marina.
Thanks
Kjerstin
An additional Note:
If I wanted to use Cupido at 15 56′ 28″ Libra that would indeed make a Yod I think… (I am still learning to understand Yods, that is Jamies department I am sure)
Since one person is never about only one aspect in their chart I include some of the other pertinent details.
The lifelong patterning of difficult and heart wrenching decisions is definately there. I doubt Marina that you need any examples though if you wish it I could privately email you on some of them. I appreciate this article, reviewing the difficult decisions I see now that there was a triangulrity every time. This is a very valuable insight and I thank you for that.
Much Love and Thanks
…Kjerstin
This sounds true for me as an Aquarius Moon square 4th house Taurus Lilith. I may come across as the sweetest Pisces girl. People have often told me “I’m too kind” least before this Moon/Lilith square comes out leaving them completely baffled and shocked…though I also have Moon opposite Saturn square Uranus. Having Uranus in the 10th opposite Lilith in 4th, both square an Aquarius Moon in the 1st is one extremely rough ride! Anyways, thanks for the helpful article, it was appreciated!
Hi, I’m really happy I found this site. I just started learning about lilith. In my chart true lilith is conjunct pluto in the first house, it’s hard for me to separate out the lilith/pluto stuff from each other. Pluto conjunct lilith is opposite my sun forming the spine of a kite formation (grand fire trine) at the same time making a t-square to my moon. It is true for me that I have had to make choices throughout my life that have separated me from loved ones, although painful these decisions were not difficult…more like jumping out of a burning building…what real choice is there?
I will definitely wait to see this come out. Mine is a tight 1′ square & am not even regretful to lose the people (dose of Pluto & saturn to my relationships as well).
Thanks.